You shouldn't be using your phone in the car period. This is why I got rid of my smartphone 3 years ago. I honk at people at stoplights about 60% of the time, because they're busy 'being safe' by updating facebook while stopped, while the light's been green for 5 seconds already.It's ridiculous for people to be updating FB, etc. while driving. I don't check texts unless I'm stopped at a light. When the light changes, phone goes back on the console and I don't touch it again until I'm stopped.
I use Siri to find directions, or perhaps send a quick text like "i'll be home in 10 minutes" but other than that, I just drive.
I look forward to the day when cell phones are banned completely from cars.