I am just trying to understand what people are doing.
Maybe people are handling the Siri Remote different than you do.
Maybe people think they are holding the remote the correct way, and start pressing buttons only to find out that it was the wrong way.
Maybe there are SW inconsistencies to explain the difference in experience.
There are all sorts of reasons to explain why your experience is different than many other people's experience.
Just look at this example:
I didn't come up with this idea, but I remember a post a long time ago explaining a reason how the Siri Remote got past testing phase with its current design.
Apple engineers probably tested the Apple TV 4 in a brightly lit testing lab while it was sitting next to a TV or monitor on a workbench.
The Siri Remote was placed right next to the Apple TV, and when it was being tested, it was picked up and held while the tester was sitting on a computer chair, and as soon as the testing session was done, it was placed back next to the Apple TV on the workbench.
It should have been tested in a dark living room, while sitting on an arm chair of a sofa, and occasionally allowed to fall into the cushions or maybe used with a blanket.
I think a lot of people complain about the design because they have to find something wrong with it.
I am definitely not in this type. I have been a long time Apple TV fan. Look at all my pre-ATV4 launch posts, I was very excited to see what Apple was going to do with the Apple TV, and back then, I probably spent 90% of my time on the forum on the ATV threads.
As soon as I saw the Siri Remote at the launch event I questioned the design. My concerns were confirmed when I got my pre-ordered ATV4.
To be fair to Apple, they have made some improvements to the Siri Remote since, like adding the sudo D-pad, and making it harder to accidentally scrub video when picking it up.
But, the designed is still flawed for many different reasons. That is why there are threads and articles just like this one. If it wasn't a problem for people, there wouldn't be companies trying to sell Siri Remote alternatives.
If there was just a few people complaining, I might agree, but the Siri Remote design seems to be the biggest complaint about the ATV.