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I think this thread is stupid without a pic. I think we need a pic of XciteMe I mean his friend.
 
If his confidence is down because he knows that he isn't attractive, then have him focus on his strong suits. Is he funny? Have a good personality? That's always a plus. If a guy has a good personality and can make me laugh they automatically become more attractive :)
 
"Your friend" should have a few drinks while at the bar THEN see how inhibited he really is with chicks.

Another possible solution is to not go for the hot ones. Try some of the shy, fugly types; maybe chubby chicks.

And, by all means, OP, post some pics of your friend.
 
For those requesting, I found a picture of the OP OP's friend.

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That's exactly what I thought when reading the first post. I did not have more girls at that age (I am 25 now). Who decides what number is enough and what not?

The goal is to beat the highscore, of course! If you fall behind your peers, you start fading.

Do you really think targeting someone with even less self esteem to exploit them sexually is the way to increase confidence?

Actually, it works. I know someone who had been looking for a girlfriend for years. When he finally got someone (a fugly and amazingly desperate b*tch), his self-confidence really did increase a lot. Sticking one's penis into a vagina seems to increase the self-confidence of many men, no matter what woman that vagina belongs to... :rolleyes:
 
Do you really think targeting someone with even less self esteem to exploit them sexually is the way to increase confidence?

Well, it's worth a shot it all else fails. But they might just be standing there facing each other with their hands in their pockets saying, "umm... umm" and looking around instead of talking.
 
Actually, it works. I know someone who had been looking for a girlfriend for years. When he finally got someone (a fugly and amazingly desperate b*tch), his self-confidence really did increase a lot. Sticking one's penis into a vagina seems to increase the self-confidence of many men, no matter what woman that vagina belongs to... :rolleyes:

Every dad dreams their little girl will grow up and meet someone like you
 
Actually, it works. I know someone who had been looking for a girlfriend for years. When he finally got someone (a fugly and amazingly desperate b*tch), his self-confidence really did increase a lot. Sticking one's penis into a vagina seems to increase the self-confidence of many men, no matter what woman that vagina belongs to... :rolleyes:

Wow- you and your friend are really cool guys. :rolleyes:
 
"Your friend" should have a few drinks while at the bar THEN see how inhibited he really is with chicks.

Another possible solution is to not go for the hot ones. Try some of the shy, fugly types; maybe chubby chicks.

And, by all means, OP, post some pics of your friend.

Yeah because shy and chubby automatically make you ugly. I bet you'll go far in life.
 
Lee, I think he needs you to prod him in the right direction. :)

I think he needs to be shown just what it's like to be treated like that. I'd be more than happy to, but there's always the chance that he's a fugly and amazingly desperate b*tch. ;)

I don't need to build my confidence anyway. :D
 
Some people just don't enjoy engaging in shallow superficial conversations (chit-chat), which is what this type of situation will usually entail.
 
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