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-Held nice dinner parties that while the wives are in the kitchen preparing, I give my friends a test drive of the iMac and show them how much better it is than the mac mini + studio display

'Wife, why don't you go do the dishes while husband is busy? I love you too.'

-I've even tried to circumvent their refusal by trying to get their spouses to do it behind their backs - one of them couldn't go through with it but wanted to do something else without their partner's knowledge!

find out what 'it' is on "Desperate iWives", out now on Apple TV.
 
Had an iMac as our first apple system.(a 2014 I7, IIRC) GPU died for lack of cooling. I would hope they are much better cooled these days. Mini M4 Pro, Benq 38" Mobius 4K. Yes there are 3 cables, a small price to pay for the options I looked at. I did check out the iMac selection and chose what was best for my situation. Perhaps their situation is such that what they have works just fine for them. Just my nickels worth, pennies are going away.
Yes, that big screen sure provides plenty of room for tree side-by-side open pages, and even scrolling up/down the page. Or just listening to your favorite music playlist on one page, and at the same time editing a photo on the other page 😀
 
In my opinion, your actions are not what I would consider normal behavior. If I was one of those friends, I would tell you to back off immediately. And if you didn’t, you would no longer be a friend. Your actions are toxic.
LOL exactly my thoughts as I was reading the original post. OP, what do you care so much about what they do?
 
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This may be out of left field, but have you tried threats on their and their families' safety? I've never tried this personally but it seems like it would be compelling.

I would never. These are my friends and my friends wives and I care for them.

It looks like the OP has left the building.

I'm waiting for better ideas.
 
I'm waiting for better ideas.

if it doesn't work out doing 'it' behind their backs, just do 'it' in front of them already, how many are there? I'm sure at least one will manage to go through with 'it' - we're rooting for you!
 
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Here are a few I’ve used myself:
  • If you have a Mac Mini and a Studio Display, they’ll always be slightly misaligned on the desk no matter how straight you place them, because you can’t position them perfectly.
  • An iMac is cheaper to buy, so you’ll have money left for AirPods Max.
  • The Magic Mouse looks better with an iMac.
  • You can get a yellow computer.
 
Hey iMac fans.

A lot of my friends went the Mac mini + Apple Studio Display route, which as we all know is an utterly foolish thing to do compared to getting an iMac.



I've tried to convince them a few different ways:

-I've let them know that Apple has an amazing trade-in policy where they will put credit towards a new iMac when they turn in their Mac mini & Studio Display

-Held nice dinner parties that while the wives are in the kitchen preparing, I give my friends a test drive of the iMac and show them how much better it is than the mac mini + studio display

-Utilize Apple's AR feature to show them how much more improved their setup looks with an iMac - less cables, clutter, and colors that make their interior pop

-Offered $100 out of my pocket toward a new iMac to anyone that does it

-I've even tried to circumvent their refusal by trying to get their spouses to do it behind their backs - one of them couldn't go through with it but wanted to do something else without their partner's knowledge!



Does anyone else have any further ideas on how to convince my friends to get an iMac?
Yea okay, I have to weigh in because the logic here just doesn’t hold up.

A computer + external display setup (Mac Mini + Apple Studio Display, or anything similar) is objectively more versatile and future-proof. The display and the computer are decoupled. If one becomes outdated, you can upgrade it without throwing out the other. An all-in-one like the iMac locks the screen and the internals together, which limits long term flexibility. That’s not an opinion - it’s just how the hardware categories work.

On the aesthetics point: if someone does add a second display to an iMac, it obviously wont match the iMac’s design. Apple doesn’t manufacture external displays in the iMac form factor. A dual-monitor setup with two matching displays will, by definition, have more visual symmetry. Humans show a general perceptual preference for symmetry over asymmetry - that’s documented in cross-cultural psychology. (You can search “perceptual symmetry preference” and “processing fluency theory” - plenty of peer-reviewed work.)

And on the whole mission of “trying to convert your friends”: that’s where psychology is even more blunt. There are decades of research on psychological reactance showing that forcefully or repeatedly trying to change someone’s decision often makes them less likely to change — even more resistant.
People push back when they feel their autonomy and freedom is being challenged. Using controlling persuasion usually backfires harder than saying nothing at all.

Hardware preferences are fine. Trying to make other adults live by your choices isn’t. That’s where the argument stops making sense.
 
Not sure why anyone would buy a Studio Display at this point. It was an OK Display when it launched but since Appple refuses to do anything about the price tag on an almost 4 year old device - at this point - still at 1600$ - unless you can write it off per business requirement - imo you should get your sanity checked :D

As for an iMac being better at anything - that is very debatable. It is a very small enclosure, will throttle as soon as you do more than browsing the web and moderate tasks. If that's all you do - the best thing would be a Macbook.

How is that for an idea? :D
 
Here are a few I’ve used myself:
  • If you have a Mac Mini and a Studio Display, they’ll always be slightly misaligned on the desk no matter how straight you place them, because you can’t position them perfectly.
  • An iMac is cheaper to buy, so you’ll have money left for AirPods Max.
  • The Magic Mouse looks better with an iMac.
  • You can get a yellow computer.
  • If you have a Mac Mini and a Studio Display, they’ll always be slightly misaligned on the desk no matter how straight you place them, because you can’t position them perfectly. Why is that not a problem for an iMac when your keyboard and mouse are constantly being moved around?
  • An iMac is cheaper to buy, so you’ll have money left for AirPods Max. But then you’re stuck with a machine whose screen and internals are permanently attached when it inevitably becomes outdated. At least the headphones will still work.
  • The Magic Mouse looks better with an iMac. That's subjective
  • You can get a yellow computer. Appealing for some, but is a single colour really worth compromising flexibility and upgrade options?
 
which as we all know is an utterly foolish thing to do compared to getting an iMac
Why? Please explain

iMac -24" 5k monitor vs. a 27" 5k monitor. The studio is brighter, offers the advantage of using it with other computers, if something happened to the iMac's cpu then you're toast.
-I've let them know that Apple has an amazing trade-in policy where they will put credit towards a new iMac when they turn in their Mac mini & Studio Display
Wouldn't they lose money and what does the iMac do that the their Mini/Studio display cannot? Why spend money on something that doesn't give them a material benefit

-Offered $100 out of my pocket toward a new iMac to anyone that does it
Now that seems extreme and off putting. I don't think people need to be so invested in a specific computer platform or model that you're literally willing to pay money to get them to use it.

-I've even tried to circumvent their refusal by trying to get their spouses to do it behind their backs - one of them couldn't go through with it but wanted to do something else without their partner's knowledge!
If a friend did that, I'd have some strong words, and don't be foold if you keep going behind thier backs, they'll find out. Is a friendship worth an iMac?

Does anyone else have any further ideas on how to convince my friends to get an iMac?
Yes, respect their boundaries and choices.
 
Hey iMac fans.

A lot of my friends went the Mac mini + Apple Studio Display route, which as we all know is an utterly foolish thing to do compared to getting an iMac.



I've tried to convince them a few different ways:

-I've let them know that Apple has an amazing trade-in policy where they will put credit towards a new iMac when they turn in their Mac mini & Studio Display

-Held nice dinner parties that while the wives are in the kitchen preparing, I give my friends a test drive of the iMac and show them how much better it is than the mac mini + studio display

-Utilize Apple's AR feature to show them how much more improved their setup looks with an iMac - less cables, clutter, and colors that make their interior pop

-Offered $100 out of my pocket toward a new iMac to anyone that does it

-I've even tried to circumvent their refusal by trying to get their spouses to do it behind their backs - one of them couldn't go through with it but wanted to do something else without their partner's knowledge!



Does anyone else have any further ideas on how to convince my friends to get an iMac?
Just get them to buy a $99 Dell monitor to go with the Mac Mini.
 
i dont like the 24 inch screen on the M1, pretty sure after this iMac there will be something else.

the old 27 inch 2014 i7 imac is in the kitchen for morning news and that, it is so much nicer to look at that screen,

while 32 inch screens are becoming more common nobody fed this data into Apple Intelligence.
This.

These days a 24 inch seems small.

If this were the 1990s the analogy would be 14 inch monitor small.

Friends don't let friends use 24" monitors.
 
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Here are a few I’ve used myself:
  • If you have a Mac Mini and a Studio Display, they’ll always be slightly misaligned on the desk no matter how straight you place them, because you can’t position them perfectly.
  • An iMac is cheaper to buy, so you’ll have money left for AirPods Max.
  • The Magic Mouse looks better with an iMac.
  • You can get a yellow computer.
Will my mouse with balls look better with an iMac?
 
Hey iMac fans.

A lot of my friends went the Mac mini + Apple Studio Display route, which as we all know is an utterly foolish thing to do compared to getting an iMac.



I've tried to convince them a few different ways:

-I've let them know that Apple has an amazing trade-in policy where they will put credit towards a new iMac when they turn in their Mac mini & Studio Display

-Held nice dinner parties that while the wives are in the kitchen preparing, I give my friends a test drive of the iMac and show them how much better it is than the mac mini + studio display

-Utilize Apple's AR feature to show them how much more improved their setup looks with an iMac - less cables, clutter, and colors that make their interior pop

-Offered $100 out of my pocket toward a new iMac to anyone that does it

-I've even tried to circumvent their refusal by trying to get their spouses to do it behind their backs - one of them couldn't go through with it but wanted to do something else without their partner's knowledge!



Does anyone else have any further ideas on how to convince my friends to get an iMac?
Stop trying to convince them.

The Mac mini they picked means they'll have less ewaste when they upgrade to a newer mini. Instead of having to toss the whole display and computer, they can just grab a new mini and keep the same expensive screen. Chances are that screen will probably be relevant in ten years, whereas the iMac might as well be dead in sever.

And going behind someone's back is a sure way to get them mad.
 
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I know better, everyone get an iMac like me. /s

The voice of the late Steve Jobs smiles with glee that the marketing still holds strong.
 
"A lot of my friends went the Mac mini + Apple Studio Display route, which as we all know is an utterly foolish thing to do compared to getting an iMac."

Pretty strong statement.

If they have a great monitor the utility of installing the mini anywhere is what i like about the mac mini. As far as the Imac 4.5K 24 vs 27 5k studio i will take the studio. Buy once cry once.
My computing is not about beauty it is about using them!

Yes Imac are tidy visually but mac mini and apple studio display can be tidy too.
Personal preference of installation is different for everyone.
 
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