The smartest thing you could do, after having just got the new iPhone 4 is to stay away from these iPhone forums. Trust me, you'll be much happier with your phone.
If you are thin skinned enough to let the forums bother you that is good advice.
I bought my ATV@ when it first came out but my iPad (dec 2010) and my iPhone (May 2011) were both bought when a lot of folks on here saying to wait for the next one.
I have thoroughly enjoyed both devices, bought them when i was able and when i was in need so it worked out great for me.