YOU PAID FOR iLife08! That's what you got. You're not entitled to anything! When you bought your Macbook, Apple did not say oh, by the way iLife09 is coming out shortly, you'll get it for free since you bought our product. You PAID for a Macbook that listed the system specs and the software that was included in the purchase price.
Your argument has no basis, except that of a spoiled 10 year old, throwing a tantrum because mommy won't buy you that cool shinny new toy. (That's exactly what you sound like)
So let your wheel squeak, eventually Apple will stop putting grease on you and let you run off to a competitor because you're no longer worth it to Apple to make you happy. Everything Apple does for it's customers, it keeps a record of.
- Go ahead, squeak away...