You probably already know this, but in case you don't I would suggest you go here, and especially to this section for info in regards to starting the process of filing for disability. I realize I'm now way, way off topic for this forum, but you did mention that is one of your other concerns, so I thought I'd throw it out there. If you pursue it, you really will need help filling out the paperwork. Your brother sounds too busy, so maybe your nurse? Be sure to make copies of your application when it's completed, to save time if you should have to fill out other forms with similar questions or re-file.
Unfortunately, the process seems to be long and drawn out in most cases. There are lawyers who specialize in this type of filing, so you may just want to go that route. Or like I'm doing, go it yourself at first, then call a lawyer if you need to appeal the decision...but based on your posts you will want to get as much help as you can, as soon as possible. Check with your hospital/Dr.'s office to see if they have some sort of Patient's Advocate or other type of assistance programs that might help you, not only with this, but with anything else that may come up as your mind begins to adjust to your new reality.
Unfortunately, the process seems to be long and drawn out in most cases. There are lawyers who specialize in this type of filing, so you may just want to go that route. Or like I'm doing, go it yourself at first, then call a lawyer if you need to appeal the decision...but based on your posts you will want to get as much help as you can, as soon as possible. Check with your hospital/Dr.'s office to see if they have some sort of Patient's Advocate or other type of assistance programs that might help you, not only with this, but with anything else that may come up as your mind begins to adjust to your new reality.
