I'm a software developer, and especially in the Apple world, you are holding back the potential of your apps/OS by creating apps/OS with a 4 year old phone in mind. The 4s has a A5 processor, while the 6 has an A8. With the new additions to Siri's capability, as well as multitasking, and, in general, app smoothness, it would be a disservice to not take advantage of the latest advances in hardware as it provides much more power and speed for some awesome, but intensive functions.
(The following is a hyperbole) What you are saying is similar to this: "GTA V should totally run just as well on my 4 year old computer as it does on the newest gaming towers, software developers should keep that in mind!"
Apple has a high adoption rate for both hardware and software, you are actually in the minority of Apple users if you are still using a 4s, so you really don't have much ground to stand on with demands.