MAN!!! There is SOME paranoia going on here. I don't always get the big picture, but what is SO SO shameful about integrating FB as opposed to Twitter?? Twitter happened, yes with some opposition but it certainly didn't ruin the OS, aren't we talking about a similar integration? or are peeps creating in their own minds that this integration will be VASTLY different??
Twitter is by far not as pervasive as Facebook with regards to your info. Twitter doesn't care what your phone number is, doesn't tag you in pictures, doesn't profile you as much as Facebook does, doesn't persistently ask for your phone number, your contact names, your interests, your soul.... And isn't full of "farmville games". It is focused on one thing, twitting, and that's it. Facebook has become a Kraken... And it is exactly a different philosophy than Apple has (and hope still keeps).
Apple should devote resources to get their act together in software, not in integrating third parties to iOS. You are right. First there was twitter, now Facebook. The rest? They are setting dangerous precedents (the very first ones being Google (maps and youtube) and then Yahoo (stocks and weather)). See what happened with google. That is what I fear will happen with Facebook.
Apple has to focus on:
- pro software (Aperture (don't get me started on the potential of the software and the mess it is in reality (resource hog so much that flash is almost smooth, crashes all the time, etc etc), and where is Aperture for iOS (I know... it is going the way of the dodo... But i like it a lot), Final Cut (what a mess it was, and still is), Logic, Pages (hasn't seen an update in ages), Numbers, Keyonte...).
- finish iCloud!! (iWork for OSX is integrated like a japanese in Finland)
- mobileme galleries in iCloud. Does Apple really want to give up on social and outsource all the information to third parties (Flickr, which is a mess in its own right, Facebook and the like?)
Why not ask Facebook to do some integration? Like a proper plugin for Aperture, or, for instance, the possibility to integrate MobileMe (now defunct, but let's call them "iCloud") galleries in Facebook? Why always the reverse???
Apple, focus on your own software. And let the adolescent company become an adult. (talking business-wise, NOT personally). Facebook is going nowhere else! Google will never partner with them, Microsoft is (at the moment) irrelevant, so Facebook is as desperate to be more integrated as Apple is to be more "social" (I don't see an inerent value in that, but it's just me).
Advice to Apple: Let Facebook try to make their own phone. It will fail miserably, then you'll be able to talk integration. Something I personally don't want.