What upsell's are you seeing that aren't on par with any tech/electronics/etc. company? If anything OS X and iOS are becoming more user friendly not less so and the integration is more than ever before.
No homesharing. Chill out people. I'm sure it will return or at least a different variation of it. This has always been the way Apple does things. Upgrades come over time. Features disappear then reappear in a different form etc. a brand new service is launched and it doesn't have everything everyone wants and folks are ready to jump ship a few days into it.
Jump ship a few days into it?
I'm not even saying that, oh and it's not like this is the first instance of shipping software that's not ready if you like to think of it as "just not in there yet".
Home sharing isn't a feature of the new service, so I'm confused why you bring that up.
I don't just hold Apple to the standards set by other companies, because if you look at their history, their marketing, etc it's exactly what you are not supposed to do.
"Only Apple could do this" is just the latest example set by Tim Cook.
This company wants to give you the impression they play above everyone else, yet they make stupid moves that are obvious upsells and if you haven't seen them left and right I don't know if it's worth pointing them out, but okay:
-soldered and glued parts all over, even when it's not necessary.
-optical image stabilization on iPhone 6+ only
-giving iPhone 6's generation of phones only 1GB, oh come on. Meanwhile the iPad has 2GB and we all know what happens to the device that has been featuring too little RAM for too long. (iPod 4th gen anyone?)
These are just a few examples, the more I give the more people will try to dismantle my argument picking the one that they think is a bad example.
And as I said, I'm not saying I'm jumping ship tomorrow, but I will say that Apple is ditching a lot of the incentives of what brought me to the Mac and iOS and had me be a mostly happy user of their products, but I don't like BS - especially not when the company constantly calls out other companies for their BS and saying they are not in it for the money, of course they are, but they have become less considerate of advanced users.
Glassed Silver:mac