The funny thing is that - at work, for instance - I commonly hear that iPhone is so incredibly restrictive and that it's really overpriced and that you'd only contemplate a purchase if you're an easily fooled "style over substance" type of creature.
Sure, you're always going to get it from both 'sides' online and so forth, but in the real world I've only ever heard sniping from those who have decided the iPhone is this appalling, useless creation and as far as I can tell the only reason is because their phone is running a different operating system. I wouldn't dream of telling someone at work how inferior their new thing is, indeed I'd rather focus on finding out what's cool about it and what sort of innovations I could potentially hope to benefit from in future.
Unfortunately, it would be pointless to bother pointing out that I simply want a great device which doesn't require a lot of additional ****ing about to get it to do what I want. Plug in, download and use. It's slick, it's easy, it's a really pleasant experience. I don't need to be able to customise every last thing that I buy to within an inch of its life. I just don't. I'm not going to buy new carpet and draw all over it to make it 'unique'. Sometimes things serve their purpose just as they are.
I like playing games (no, the ability to run emulators doesn't make something a great games console by itself - good native software is far more interesting), and therefore it's the only choice in town. I like the fact that it has a viable non-mobile app store in iTunes which I can search and find things on and not an abomination stuck in the internet of 1994.
I like the fact that it's not completely useless to me as a music player - a lack of true gapless playback is simply unacceptable in this day and age.
And, shallow or not, I like the design. And that screen. It would be impossible to go back to anything less than that possessed by iPhone 4.
I don't even need to mention the antenna issue, which has taken on a mythological life of its own. To believe the chatter, I'd come to the conclusion that - rather than dropping nary a single call - I'd not successfully made one at all.
Oh, and I don't think it is jealousy on the part of the detractors...It's merely insecurity about a really great competing device.