After reading this thread, I'm not taking any chances.
I ordered my 4S around 2pm on Friday by speaking with an Apple agent on the phone. She assured me that I would be able to change my shipping address on the apple website once the order is placed (I too am on a family plan and living in NY while my primary account holder is in CA). Once I received the order number and it went through the Apple system, I was able to edit the shipping address to my NY apartment.
Apple still claims my phone is "Preparing for Shipment," but I'm not taking any chances. I logged onto my family's account through AT&T and changed the billing address to match my NY apartment. Now all (Shipping, Credit Card Billing, and AT&T billing) my addresses are the same.
I would suggest anyone who is afraid of cancellation because of a simple address difference to do the same.
I ordered my 4S around 2pm on Friday by speaking with an Apple agent on the phone. She assured me that I would be able to change my shipping address on the apple website once the order is placed (I too am on a family plan and living in NY while my primary account holder is in CA). Once I received the order number and it went through the Apple system, I was able to edit the shipping address to my NY apartment.
Apple still claims my phone is "Preparing for Shipment," but I'm not taking any chances. I logged onto my family's account through AT&T and changed the billing address to match my NY apartment. Now all (Shipping, Credit Card Billing, and AT&T billing) my addresses are the same.
I would suggest anyone who is afraid of cancellation because of a simple address difference to do the same.