What are you talking about?
All the iPhone/iPad comes with the ejecting tool. OP's tool probably got lost (error) during packaging.
My friend's ATT iPhone 4 came with ejecting tool.
My USA bought iPhone 4S came with ejecting tool as well.
well since I have purchased all iPhones (while on contract with AT&T) only my 3G & 3GS came with sim tools.
I didn't mention iPad's since I don't own one
thanks for the hospitality
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I bought my 4s unlocked from apple and it came with a sim card ejector tool. Inside the US. It's not restricted to other countries. I think inside the US it's only the unlocked phones, since they assume those people may be changing sim cards frequently. If you bought it on contract with a carrier then their should be no real need to use it unless you sell it and wish to take it out.
My iPhone 5 bought on contract did not come with one, nor did it have a place for one in the packaging like my 4s did. The 4s is the only iPhone so far that has came with the tool.
this is probably how it works then. I've never purchased one out of contract/Unlocked.