Everyone in this thread needs to STOP all the hating. The OP asked a question, and I answered honestly, no need to be jumping all over me. I realize that some of you think I'm somehow to blame...I do admit that I made some mistakes in my past and I probably should have payed more attention to my fiancé.
Everyone at work is going out tomorrow night to a bar and I think she's supposed to be there. I think I'll try talking to her again and test out how she'll handle it if I use my phone.
Also to the people who think that I'm disrespectful:
This is the future! Eventually we wont need to look down at our phone, we'll have helmets or something over our eyes so nobody will be able to tell that we're changing our background or rearraging our apps or playing a crossword, and THEN this problem will go away. It's just a temporary problem, technology just needs to catch up to the data that we're getting available to us.