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It can answer yes to all, ESPECIALLY the relationship one. Here's the story:

My gf is not a big fan of cell phones at all and since the first day that I bought the iphone she didnt like it. She hated the fact that at dinner and breakfast i would just fiddle with my new toy and completely ignore her and make no effort at conversation (hey, who can blame me! the thing has so many apps for everything! the crossword app is ADDICTING). and in bed at night we used to read books together and cuddle but i would stay up all night watching podcasts and browsing the web on my side of the bed.

what really set her off was the time we went to her parents house for thanksgiving dinner and i was supposed to carve the turkey so i looked up an app for turkey recommendations and wine pairing but i got so sucked in that i forgot to actually carve the turkey! i ended up sitting on the phone in my chair for over an hour and didnt talk to anyone-i even forgot to grab a plate until someone brought one to me (i forgot who) and her one aunt apparently got mad when they said grace and i was not paying attention. but come on! we do thanksgiving every friggin year! who cares if one time i was on my phone.

after that she tried to start a rule that no iphone were allowed in the house or she would break up with me (we were engaged, together for about 5 yrs at that point). whatever, i said, if u cant take me for who i am then we shouldnt be together. she ended up not enforcing that rule and stayed together with me for a few months. we finally broke up when she approached me bc we didnt have sex in like months so she wanted to with me but during sex (no joke--this really happened lol) i got a push notification that my WeRule crop was ready to be harvested...needless to say i couldnt keep going with her and had to harvest my crop. after i did that and some other things, about an hour later she wouldnt continue and we went to sleep. turns out she was crying and the next morning she packed up! lol! whatever.

You are a supreme idiot.
 
there are some real sad pathetic losers in this thread/forum

I'll keep repeating this, but we really need a OCD/cosmetic moaning subforum

they can be as obsessed as they want, and the rest of us don't have to listen to them.

OCD is a real disease, these people are just being anal with their toys.
 
Everyone in this thread needs to STOP all the hating. The OP asked a question, and I answered honestly, no need to be jumping all over me. I realize that some of you think I'm somehow to blame...I do admit that I made some mistakes in my past and I probably should have payed more attention to my fiancé. :apple:

Everyone at work is going out tomorrow night to a bar and I think she's supposed to be there. I think I'll try talking to her again and test out how she'll handle it if I use my phone.

Also to the people who think that I'm disrespectful:

This is the future! Eventually we wont need to look down at our phone, we'll have helmets or something over our eyes so nobody will be able to tell that we're changing our background or rearraging our apps or playing a crossword, and THEN this problem will go away. It's just a temporary problem, technology just needs to catch up to the data that we're getting available to us.

Your going to test her? Dude you dont get it. She already knows you are hopeless and is why she isnt with you anymore. You are what you are. Addicted to a gadget and would rather play on that than be with Girls.

How sad for you!
 
I think everyone in this thread is taking my comment out of perspective.

I want to start by saying that, I am a geek and I love shiny sexy gadgets. The iPhone is the first time I've ever felt like I have everything I could ever need in one little brick shaped device. The holy grail if you will.

My (ex)gf never respected my interest in gadgets, she liked things like hiking and watching movies or playing games together. That didn't ever interest me (it used to a little...but that was before my eyes were opened to constant data being available to me any time I wanted).

The fact that she couldn't understand why I wanted to play on the iPhone (between jailbreaking/hacking with it, and social networking, and crossword games) showed me that she wasn't aware of my needs. After she split up with me it took me a while to figure this out, but I stopped being sad once I realized that's the problem!

Every once in a while I'll bump into her on the street but as we're talking I pretend to get a text message and take out my phone to see if shes changed and she always gets that sad look on her face. She hasn't changed and that proves it. She told me that she hates the iphone and not me because the iphone killed the man she fell in love with, but i say, get over it! I'm an apple guy at heart!


Dude... speaking on behalf of females who LOVE gadgets ( I love my iPhone4) If you stopped during sex to frig around with some online game, I would take that phone and put it in the toilette.

That is just downright rude and inconsiderate. Also, you clearly have NEVER EVER gone through the effort to prepare a large meal for loved ones, because if you knew the effort that went into such and endeavour you would have NEVER have been so ignorant. It takes 4+ hours to prepare some of those thanksgiving meals, surely you could have put the phone down for 1 hour to enjoy all the work they did for everyone....

Just my two cents.

Sure you didn't have the same interests, but common courtesy, respect and kindness don't have to be separate from your interests in tech.

I have no sympathy for you. On the very day I got my iPhone 4 I had my parents visiting from across the country, and though my heart longed to touch and caress my new toy, I put the damn thing down within eyeshot and spent the next 4 days with minimal time on that device because that is what a courteous person would do.

WW
 
It can answer yes to all, ESPECIALLY the relationship one. Here's the story:

after that she tried to start a rule that no iphone were allowed in the house or she would break up with me (we were engaged, together for about 5 yrs at that point). whatever, i said, if u cant take me for who i am then we shouldnt be together. she ended up not enforcing that rule and stayed together with me for a few months. we finally broke up when she approached me bc we didnt have sex in like months so she wanted to with me but during sex (no joke--this really happened lol) i got a push notification that my WeRule crop was ready to be harvested...needless to say i couldnt keep going with her and had to harvest my crop. after i did that and some other things, about an hour later she wouldnt continue and we went to sleep. turns out she was crying and the next morning she packed up! lol! whatever.

Whats wrong with you? Youd give up sex for a stupid app notification?
 
Whats wrong with you? Youd give up sex for a stupid app notification?

No kidding, how irresponsible. If he was really giving his WeRule crops the proper attention, he would have known they would be ready to harvest soon and wouldn't have had to rely on a push notification in the first place. He was taking a BIG RISK having sex with his girlfriend at such a critical moment. Fortunately, everything turned out okay!

Hopefully, evilgreg has learned his lesson and won't let this type of crop neglect continue.
 
Whats wrong with you? Youd give up sex for a stupid app notification?
The sex obviously wasn't good ... and it wasn't her fault I'm thinking. :p

To answer the OP: My wife and I have rules: no phones while eating together at home or at restaurants. If we have company they go away and if either wants sex, they better not even be near us.
 
Dude... speaking on behalf of females who LOVE gadgets ( I love my iPhone4) If you stopped during sex to frig around with some online game, I would take that phone and put it in the toilette.

That is just downright rude and inconsiderate. Also, you clearly have NEVER EVER gone through the effort to prepare a large meal for loved ones, because if you knew the effort that went into such and endeavour you would have NEVER have been so ignorant. It takes 4+ hours to prepare some of those thanksgiving meals, surely you could have put the phone down for 1 hour to enjoy all the work they did for everyone....

Just my two cents.

Sure you didn't have the same interests, but common courtesy, respect and kindness don't have to be separate from your interests in tech.

I have no sympathy for you. On the very day I got my iPhone 4 I had my parents visiting from across the country, and though my heart longed to touch and caress my new toy, I put the damn thing down within eyeshot and spent the next 4 days with minimal time on that device because that is what a courteous person would do.

WW

Too perfect a response... Assuming OP is on the level, you need serious help chief...
 
Too perfect a response... Assuming OP is on the level, you need serious help chief...


ty for the compliment. I do for some reason suspect that the OP is a Troll, it just couldn't be real. Although the more I watch TV the more I realize that any level of stupidity is possible: Jackasses, KennyVSSpenny, Trailer park boys.. CNN... need I continue? LOL

WW
 
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You all should try this new product. It's called life.
 
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This.
 
If you stopped during sex to frig around with some online game, I would take that phone and put it in the toilette.

"Some online game??" It was his WeRule crop! Can you imagine the disaster if he didn't harvest in time? His entire crop might have been lost!
 
In a sense im addicted. I will never buy another phone from another company ever again. Im glued o the Iphone and I don't see it getting worse.
 
I guess if evilgreg's We Rule crop wasn't harvested in time, he'd fall into a deep depression and couldn't go on living. :rolleyes:
 
Update for everyone who seems to care about my situation:

I'm going to the bar with everyone from work tonight and she's going to be there too. I'm going to talk to her and find out if it was really what you are all saying about me. I'll ask her if she agrees with ur posts, I'll bring up the responses on my iphone and figure out if you're all as smart as you think you are.

I'll post back here over the weekend and let you all know.

Also I'm not addicted to WeRule anymore, that game got so old and FAST. But I still agree that what I said in my previous post that the technology just needs to catch up to the data and information we have right now. I guarantee that in a few years someone will invent something we can use that we wont have to take out a phone and look down, we will be able to have constant information flowing across everything we look at so we wont have to be ignoring people at dinner, we will be able to play games and chat with them at the same time.
 
Evilgreg has to be a troll.
Either that, or one of those fat, long haired, pimple faced, glasses wearing, comic book collecting retards. Lol, funny story though!
 
Update for everyone who seems to care about my situation:

I'm going to the bar with everyone from work tonight and she's going to be there too. I'm going to talk to her and find out if it was really what you are all saying about me. I'll ask her if she agrees with ur posts, I'll bring up the responses on my iphone and figure out if you're all as smart as you think you are.

I'll post back here over the weekend and let you all know.

Also I'm not addicted to WeRule anymore, that game got so old and FAST. But I still agree that what I said in my previous post that the technology just needs to catch up to the data and information we have right now. I guarantee that in a few years someone will invent something we can use that we wont have to take out a phone and look down, we will be able to have constant information flowing across everything we look at so we wont have to be ignoring people at dinner, we will be able to play games and chat with them at the same time.


OMFG...
 
Update for everyone who seems to care about my situation:

I'm going to the bar with everyone from work tonight and she's going to be there too. I'm going to talk to her and find out if it was really what you are all saying about me. I'll ask her if she agrees with ur posts, I'll bring up the responses on my iphone and figure out if you're all as smart as you think you are.

Don't worry. We're not.

Also, you may want to load up Angry Birds Halloween Edition on your iPhone before you go, if you haven't already. That way, you'll have something to do during the downtime while you're there. Those bar outings can be deadly dull sometimes.
 
I dunno why, but calling gadgets sexy creeps me out.
I love gadgets myself. I'm a girl. I keep my phone with me at all times but I was raised with manners and I feel human interaction is wayyy more important than playing on a stupid phone.
I just can't even fathom my boyfriend stopping sex to harvest crops on WeRule. I would be completely insulted and that would be the last thing he did on his phone. Pathetic. And now you don't even play the game anymore, lol.
I can't wait to hear what goes on when you see this girl this weekend, if you can out your phone down long enough to even talk to her.
 
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