lol at addressing only this. i just have to assume your just a troll, i cant conceive an adult that doesnt want to teach kids that theres consequences for their actions. i really have to question your intelligence at this point. they did something wrong they deserved to get punished, so i guess the practice of punishing criminals since i dont know the beginning of time is wrong too right? why have jails?
i dont care to know about you or your kids. the fact that you have an extreme flaw if you think a 'slap on the wrist' is a viable option every time your kids screw up.
if your kids grow up fine and become good people with your flawed parenting ideologies thats fine. but I've seen kids that only get a slap of the wrist or nothing at all.
having kids pay for their actions isn't controlling. lol you dont punish your kids at ALL? you do know the justice system and schools punish kids right? detention, juvie hall, community service, paying for fines.
so i guess you have some unknown secret unknown to the rest of the world.
You seem like a really smart and grown up adult, saying "lol" a lot about other peoples opinions... Very eloquent. Also calling people stupid over a difference of opinion. also very mature. Hats of to you.
edit: "Last edited by loon3y; Today at 11:37 AM. Reason: insult/name-calling removed" This under your last post, pretty much proves my point. thanks for the talk. I'm out.
like I stated before, I'm talking about people in this thread who are treating this incident like they robbed the apple store at gun point.
They broke a phone, which probably happens in apple stores around the world every day. The damage is marginal at best. and because of that, I think the punishment should fit the crime. Call the parents in, have a serious talk, and delete their ps3 savegames or what ever. No need to involve the justice system with this nonsense. Nobody will gain anything from them having this appear in their record. Not the kids, not apple, not society. no one.
Just look over at the US and their great justice system. Does it help the country as a whole, incarcerating that many people (highest number on the planet)? Do people stop committing crimes because they may or may not get punished? No they don't, I'd even go as far as to say the commit even more crimes after they get out of jail.
I'm not saying these kids would get jail time, but it would probably appear in their record for the rest of their life (don't know about the law in the UK to well), which could **** up their lives forever. (Not getting jobs and ****).
In my experience, kids respond to understanding and listening way better than to a punishment.
If you think differently, that's totally fine. everybody can do what they want. But don't come in here telling me how to a raise a child. Because in
my opinion, when it comes to the point where you have to punish your kids, you failed them as a parent.
edit: And I'm not talking about house arrest because they skipped school or something. Of course kids need boundaries that they will test eventually. I'm talking about dragging them in front of a judge because they broke an iphone.