But, no, switching to ARM in itself won't make me dump Apple - there's no reason why any of the major applications I use shouldn't be ARM native within in a year or so - only a problem if Apple mishandle the transition so people are forced to buy ARM macs prematurely. Making sure all the Intel models get one last update this year should do it.
5 years ago, losing the ability to run (x86) Windows would have been a dealbreaker - now, not so much. #1 reason was to test websites in Internet Explorer - which was an absolute pain for quirks and outdated features - now IE is pretty much dead, MS is using Chromium, and my recent experience is that when I've tested web stuff under parallels the "bugs" have been false alarms caused by glitches in parallels. Also, I need to test websites/webapps on Windows touchscreen so I'm going to have to get a Windows 2-in-1 at some stage anyway. The last bit of Windows software I was using - Xara - has now been effectively replaced by Affinity Designer (it took a while, but it finally has arrowheads!) and - who knows - running Windows for ARM might even be an option for some things. Virtualising Linux is also useful, but for everything short of testing x86 binaries, ARM Linux can do the trick and most things are processor-agnostic. Anyway, it's 2020 and you can spin up any flavour of x86 Linux in the cloud for peanuts.
What will make me switch is if, when I'm ready to upgrade, Apple don't offer the form-factor and specs I need. Currently, the don't - the new Mac Pro is strictly for millionaire YouTube influencers, I'm already frustrated by the fixed screen in my iMac and a Mac Mini with a choice between Intel's most basic iGPU and a ridiculous external GPU is a non-starter. For other people, it may be the lack of a sensible desktop-replacement laptop with decent thermals, I/O and affordable internal storage. I'm not holding my breath - some of it is Apple being Apple - but ARM might actually improve some of those things - the GPU problem with the Mini is down to Intel not offering premium GPUs on desktop processors, and ARM laptops should have better thermals than Intel.