Yeah it's a fairly common sentiment, but I wouldn't expect much sympathy here. People will mock you for what you're saying. However this board really doesn't reflect reality. If you check out other general tech sites, you would see most people laugh at what Apple offers to the public.
I'm a fan of Apple in general, and use PC's in conjunction with my macs, but lately I've been souring on the Mac experience as a whole. Clunky, buggy software, a slow OS with many, many crashes (programs, not OS necessarily, but a lot of those programs are Apple's own), etc. By contrast, Windows 7 has just been flying for me. Incredibly fast, zippy performance, and it allows me to be very productive. I seem to be more productive on Windows for whatever reason. It could be how everything seems geared towards that goal, while OSX is geared towards being pretty.
Apple seems to be good at getting ideas out there, but not really executing. At this point I hate my iPhone. It is a pain in the rear to use, apps crash ALL the time, and it's just choppy and slow to use. I have the 3G version. The next version will have to be amazing for me to stick with it and AT&T. It is not a good experience. I would look at an Android or Windows 7 phone on a better carrier later this year. On top of that, look at their software offerings. The iLife suite. Is anything happening with it? iMovie is TERRIBLE. iPhoto is ok, but very slow as well, and doesn't give you many options. Garageband is decent, maybe the best app in the suite. Not sure anything else is even worth looking at, but it's not a strong package. iWork is ok, could be better, but you can produce nice documents with it. I've done an internationally read newsletter in Pages, and it turned out pretty decent. Pro apps are largely behind these days, even with new updates. Don't even get people started on their computers.
So in the end, they seem to have good ideas, but it's all half-assed when it comes to execution. And they don't fix it. Or improve it. Because they don't need too. And the Apple zealots will not only defend it, but say it's the greatest blessings mankind has ever seen.
So no, don't feel bad or unsure of the fact that you are seeing the major holes in Apple's lineup. It's a natural consequence of their actions, and unless they turn things around I think this sort of thing will keep increasing.