My issues aren't anywhere near as bad as yours, but with my M1 MBP 16", after working on it for 1.5 or 2 hours, I would get a headache. It wasn't an issue where I turned it on and disliked the screen or colours. No, it looked great to me.I'm simply unable to due to the issues caused by Temporal Light Modulation, PWM and Pulse Amplitude Modulation - to me, all MacBook Pro displays since at least the M series have led to bad eyestrain within minutes of use, and an inability to focus properly, especially on text. It looks like everything is under water, text is blurry and seems to float around, and the display seems too dark to me even at full blast.
I have no such issues with my LCD panels where I often work eight to twelve hours in a day. Even less eye strain since I installed BetterDisplay and turned off GPU dithering. Nor do I ever have issues with my MBP 17" with matte display. I ended up selling off the M1 MBP and would have to buy a 15" MBP with LCD display if I wanted to get back to portable computing (for now, I'll just take the 17" on the road with its limitations).
I face issues with OLED iPhones as well. The 14 Pro Max gave me all kinds of issues, a crossgrade to a 13 Pro was much better. This was before I knew much about PWM on iPhones. Turns out the 13 Pro has double the refresh rate (480Hz vs 240Hz). I don't tempt fate with iPhone screens and use them for short stints (mostly under 10 minutes).
Similarly, the M1 iPad Pro was a complete disaster. I use my iPad Pro 12.9" for a lot of passive content consumption, reading. The M1 iPad Pro display looked amazing with absolute blacks but headaches would start within forty minutes and then persist from the OLED dithering. I stuck with my 2018 iPad Pro 12.9 with LED display. I can read for hours and hours on that iPad with no issues. Great device.
In short, Apple is prioritising flashy technology over customer health. Not everybody feels these effects, but for those of us who do, it's worth keeping close track of screen display technology and choosing hardware accordingly.*
* Due to screen lmitations and privacy issues with iPhones/iOS, I tried a Google Pixel Pro 8 with GrapheneOS. The screen caused me such eye strain, that I double downed on my commitment to the 13 Pro for the next couple of years. There's no interesting phone for a photographer which has eye-friendly technology right now and can accept a privacy-oriented OS (LineageOS).