I realize we're heading deep into OT territory, but the attitude that military people possess (as evidenced in your post) also seems condescending. The military doesn't want me for a very irrational reason that is a different topic for debate, but I don't see it as "serving our country" any better than any other profession. One joins the military (at least in the US) voluntarily, and is compensated handsomely for the privilege, in monetary compensation, college benefits, kick-ass health/prescription insurance, and flattering uniforms
But calling it "serving our nation" just seems deceitful - it's a job, and you signed up for it.
(Mods, I understand. The question seems answered already, and it's happy endings for all. I wanted to give more justification for my previous post.)