You're welcome. I learned the Adobe Creative suites years ago, but I don't use any of their software now. When I took broadcast, I learned Final cut studio. I use iMessage as well, but for me, having it on the computer is more of an accessibility feature than a requirement, meaning in my case, because of having low vision, having the physical keyboard to send / receive messages makes it easier than trying to type on a touch screen, or use voice dictation. If I was more comfortable using the phone directly for messages, I'd switch to Linux on the mac completely because I've been able to find alternatives to what Apple offers for just about anything, except the specific features that help me.
I still use macOS native apps, however, I have also embraced open source, and cross platform solutions for many things too. There are pros and cons to each one, and neither is a perfect solution for everything.
I can say this though, I am someone who likes retro computing, but also understands needing to be able to have current updates as well. With my mac being no longer supported by Apple has been somewhat of a good thing. I can't just go and install the latest OS like I used and it's made me slow down and really think about, do I really need it, or am I just doing it out of habit. There are some apps I use, that like older versions of macOS over newer, for performance reasons. They haven't been updated in quite a while.
So yes, I can understand both sides, needing the latest, but also maybe slowing down a bit.