If you are not on the marrow registry, do it. In 1989, I donated a sample of blood at a drive for a young woman in Maryland looking for a bone marrow donor. On the release form, there was a box asking if I wanted to be in the national registry, which was quite new then. I remember saying "what the hell" and checked the national box. Good call. In 1991, after some more tests, I matched a leukemia patient in California. In October 1991, I donated marrow to him. In 1992, we met after exchanging out information (not required). I met his wife and 4-year old son. In October 2011, we celebrated 20 years! While his health is declining after 20 years of anti-rejection meds and steroids, he has had 20 years with his wife, and has seen his toddler grow up, graduate college and fall in love. I learned that it only takes one to make a difference. Please get on the marrow registry.
I've attached the letter he wrote me a year after the donation...please share it...if it encourages just one to get on the registry, it will give every person looking for a match one more chance.