This may be true to some extent, but this is not usenet. This is a moderated, profit-making enterprise. While it certainly behooves us to not throw gasoline on a fire, the standards are set by the rules of the forum and by extension its moderators.
Given that presumably smart and helpful members are leaving, the management may wish to set the bar a bit higher. I would suggest that individuals who post solely to mock or disparage others (in this thread, for example) should be told to take themselves elsewhere. Otherwise, good people seeking help will do so.
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(while I am gratified to note that the more offensive individuals on my ignore list are now suspended, I must balance that with the fact that it took years for it to happen. Life is too short.)
Personally, I don't have anyone on my 'ignore' list, although that does not mean that, in practice, the are not members whose posts I willingly ignore.
Granted, this is a profit-making - and yes, moderated (relatively well moderated, much of the time) - enterprise.
However, my concern, - and this is what I believe that
@mobilehaathi may have been alluding to - is that the recent election in the US has allowed - and indeed, enabled, encouraged and facilitated - a new low in the tone of permissible public - and political - discourse - and in online communities, such as this one.
This tone - thuggish, insulting, deliberately offensive and bulletin - was set - enabled, encouraged - by recent events in American public life, and it is an absolute scandal that it has not been challenged more, both here - on this forum - and elsewhere - in public life in the United States.
And, make no mistake, the tone taken during this recent election does little credit to the United States.
Elsewhere, I queried elements of this - such as calling people - being allowed to call people and defending the right to call people - (well, a certain person) in public life "a criminal bitch" on these very threads.
There are no circumstances - anywhere, in any setting, public or private - where it is considered acceptable to call a woman a "criminal bitch" - and to defend the right to do so, serves not only to coarsen tone of debate in the public space, and to confuse free speech with the right to offer offensive insults in lieu of debate.
During the election, comments were made online - and elsewhere - enabled by the tone set by one campaign in an attempt to make abusive language a new political and public norm.
By not disavowing it, the site encouraged and enabled and facilitated it - and - by definition, condoned it.
Now, elsewhere I have mentioned that I have spent much of my adult life teaching and studying politics, and - as it happens - the use of language in situations of politics and power; more recently, I have worked as a political analyst, and elections specialist, - working on monitoring, observing, running, reporting on, and analysing elections in some of the most contentious places on the planet over the past 20 years - and I do understand that tempers can be frayed and emotions heightened during an electoral cycle.
However, that does not excuse allowing the use of crude, coarse, belittling and insulting language to insult peel on the basis of their race, ethnicity, gender - especially when language the language we use to communicate in - the English language - is rich and expressive with a vast and nuanced vocabulary.
It should be possible to express strong and robust differences of opinion and vigorous disagreement without hurling vicious and deliberate offensive abuse at those whose views differ from yours.