That took a turn I wasn't expecting. The reason why I stated I was hetrosexual is people of different likes tend to have different tastes. Some homosexual men like feminine things and if they say they wear the white band, well, it's important to know for honestly answering your question.
The colors of the avatar are the actual colors, actual avatar, actual logo of Apple when it first started. I don't know why Steve and Woz went with it, but they did. Woz also wore rose colored apple shaped glasses at the time, so there was that too. In the late 70's, early 80's I don't recall the colors signifying anything social.
And no, I don't have any issues with what sexuality people choose or say they identify more with. Good for your oldest daughter. I'm glad she's happy. I have a brother and extended family that I care very much about who go that route too. Since you bring it up though, I think we are confusing generations of people with how they identify.
Not too long ago a niece of mine stated she was PAN Sexual. That was a new term for me so of course I had to look it up. Means one minute you may identify under one sexual preference and the next you may identify differently. Not, apparently, the same thing as bi-sexual.
BTW - I have pink (or peach-like) shirts too. Still don't like the white band. Maybe I should say I have pale skin. I think it looks too feminine on me.