All I'm saying is if a woman wants the traditional wedding/engagement items and events, she should feel somewhat obligated to follow all of them, including taking the husbands name. If nothing else for the gesture alone. Men are typically expected to shell out quite a bit, not to mention the parents in some situations. (not me I paid for everything)
Am I the only person who feels if a woman can pick and choose what traditions to or not to follow is a bit selfish?
I know every situation is different, and I just generalized a bit. But, I can't be completely alone with this opinion. BTW, I'm not a Conservative Christian.