Are you sure about your lightning vs iphone explosion statements?
If so, it would be nice to see the facts.
Here's one from recently as last week.
A quick search will turn up hundreds of iphones melting, smoking & exploding.
Time will tell if the iphone battery issue has migrated over to the new iPad.
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http://www.ubergizmo.com/2012/03/iphone-4-bursts-into-smoke/
183,078,100 iPhones sold to date. let's say a 100 phones a year(!) explode (that would be 500 iPhones since the first one);
Chance of having an iPhone explode: 1/1,830,781
Chance of being struck by lightning: 1/775,000 (every year, in a lifetime it's 1/10,000)
So, yeah, i sleep well at night with two iPhones and an iPad charging in my house ;-)
sources:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:IPhone_sales_per_quarter_simple.svg
http://www.lightningsafety.noaa.gov/medical.htm