My sister and brother-in-law had a huge shindig for my neice's 16 b-day (two years ago). They invited me to the party to "supervise" since there were nearly 100 of the amanda's (my neice) friends there. I don't know how much the party cost but it must have been a lot. There was a DJ with a guy who would do activities with people, catered food, a big rented tent thing, lots of food, an inground pool, and they gave her a car (my sisters 2 year old BMW 3-series).
Hows that for spoiled. My brother-in-law comes from a huge family of money and is very successful. My sister and I come from a bit of family money, but her husband is just really wealthy- like multi multi multi millionare. Even though they are quite wealthy, they are not *too* flashy with everything. There house is big, but not a giant stone castle. My brother in law has a V8 Touareg and a 2001 or 2002 E320, my sister has an 3.0 X5 now, amanda has a 3-series, and they have a 15 year old son. If they wanted they could own a maserati quatroporte (saw one on the highway- made my mercededes look like a piece of crap), a rolls royce and a Hummer H1.