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My girlfriend, a hotel room, and a 30 year old

advice

depending on how long you 2 have been together, if i were in your shoes i would:
option 1)be angry, confront her, depending on what she says end it or not

option 2)ask her, if she seems like shes lieing when you ask her and you have proof that shes messing around do it back to her 3x as bad (thats just me)

option 3)if this isnt the first time something like this has happened and you dont think you can fix the relationship in anyway end it

option 4)talk with her about it and make sure to tell her how you feel

n option 5)if you want the easy way out just end it, say youre not getting enough attention or something along thoses lines.
 
For goodness sake, this isn't relationship therapy forums - why has this ridiculous thread not been locked by now?

Utterly laughable.
 
iphonepiephone said:
For goodness sake, this isn't relationship therapy forums - why has this ridiculous thread not been locked by now?

Utterly laughable.
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Because although these aren't relationship forums, nothing gives us great pleasure to see some kid unravel over a girl.
 
What a bunch of stupid comments, "This is why I don't date men"? Really?

If one were using logic:

1. The 30 year old made his intentions quite clear from the start - he expects to sleep with OP's girlfriend. This alone should make OP's girlfriend not want to be around the guy .. yeah a little 'attention' is quite different from someone trying to get into your pants.

2. OP made it quite clear that he would be uncomfortable with his girlfriend hanging out with him.. especially in the hotel room. She still went ahead with it. What's more important? Hanging out with this dude for a little 'attention' or listening to your boyfriend? (it's a simple request, it's not like she's asked to do something extraordinary)

3. I have been in this situation with a girl a long time ago. She went off for a vacation, stayed at an ex-bf's motel.. I had a weird feeling about it, but trusted her. After we broke up, she pretty much confirmed that they 'did' it, but she didn't want me to be hurt, lol.

Did that incident make me say "I never want to date a woman"? No.
 
h1r0ll3r said:
While I can understand your stance on this with you wanting your girlfriend to be safe and all, I think you should let this go for now and hope it settles down. The more you bring this issue up or make a big(ger) deal about this, the more she'll get fed up with it and, possibly, the more she'll be inclined to say, "eff this", and meet up with him again and again just to spite you. Then, who knows, something might really happen at that point.

If you do trust her and she thinks she can handle the situation on her own, leave it at that and just bite your tongue. Carry on as you normally would and just trust her. No one enjoys being treated like they're incompetent or incapable of thinking for themselves. Yeah, the situation is a bit unfavorable but if your gal says she can handle it, let her be.
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This is what I would do. I'm 21 and I've been in this type of situation once or twice and all I can say is let it go for now. At first I was like you, pissed when My GF did something knowing what I felt against it and did it anyway, but I learned something from it. If you love her (and she loves you obviously!) but also have self-respect, trust her. If she says, and most importantly, you know her to the point she wouldn't do nothing behind yor back, then let her make her own choices ;)
 
Music_Producer said:
What a bunch of stupid comments, "This is why I don't date men"? Really?

If one were using logic:

1. The 30 year old made his intentions quite clear from the start - he expects to sleep with OP's girlfriend. This alone should make OP's girlfriend not want to be around the guy .. yeah a little 'attention' is quite different from someone trying to get into your pants.

2. OP made it quite clear that he would be uncomfortable with his girlfriend hanging out with him.. especially in the hotel room. She still went ahead with it. What's more important? Hanging out with this dude for a little 'attention' or listening to your boyfriend? (it's a simple request, it's not like she's asked to do something extraordinary)

3. I have been in this situation with a girl a long time ago. She went off for a vacation, stayed at an ex-bf's motel.. I had a weird feeling about it, but trusted her. After we broke up, she pretty much confirmed that they 'did' it, but she didn't want me to be hurt, lol.

Did that incident make me say "I never want to date a woman"? No.
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Read up on the context of that statement. Even focusing on what I quoted I was merely stating that the opinion that 90% of men being that paranoid made me glad I don't date men. I don't date men for many reasons, primarily because I have a girlfriend!

Though in seriousness, despite being very much bisexual on a physical level even were I single I highly doubt I'd date men, I just don't think I could deal with how possessive they so often seem.

What the hell is so wrong with that?

Also, this thread is ancient, let it die!

:mad:
 
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