I can't believe that after complaining about your misfortune and spending the time to type your misfortunes to us, you haven't made the effort to even call customer service. If I was in your position, I'd be calling them right away. Is there something prohibiting you from calling Apple? Is it really that difficult to dial a number and talk to someone? So what if you're going to be on hold for a long time, and get transferred everywhere. Fact remains... If you don't try you won't know. A phone call is always more effective than an e-mail when it comes to making a complaint.
Stop bumming around about calling Apple. Just do it.
Stop bumming around about calling Apple. Just do it.