Why has nobody mentioned the obvious iOS restrictions?
Quite literally the first response
Ah, well, if you want people to actually read your response, maybe don't start it with this:
"Before I start I don't have a complete answer for you but maybe something will point you in the right direction."
So I skipped the rest. Apologies.
I didn't have a sermon on parenting no-one asked for either. Silly me
You can set your router to log websites. If your router doesn't do it out of the box, get one that does. Software solutions, in my opinion, are very easy to circumvent.
I also believe that monitoring or censoring the internet is an exercise in futility, but could have good unintended consequences:
My parents never restricted my internet, and allowed me to have a computer in my room. I grew up in the 90s and early 2000s. This is despite the fact that my father is a software and hardware engineer, knows quite a lot about technology, and at that age tough me everything I know. Finding whatever I wanted online was no problem for me.
My best friend's parents though were crazy about it though. We liked going to steak and cheese dot com, which was blocked for obvious reasons. Initially they installed a little snooping and lockout program on his desktop in his room (initially Windows 98SE, later Windows 2000). After telling his parents we were doing research for school, so they unlocked his browsing, we proceeded to find instructions online on how to disable this snooping program without letting the administrator know that something was up. Later, they installed a different program. Again, we manually found keys in the Windows registry that let us disable certain functionalities.
Later, his parents installed a network-based censoring program that was configured to block his computer. We learned how to spoof a computer's MAC address. They upped the security restrictions to include all computers but their own, we learned how to kick their computers off the network and spoof their MAC address. They upped the security restrictions to apply to all computers all the time, we found a program that brute-forced the admin password for the router. They got a different router... and we went to college. Both of us went into some form of engineering, armed with the large amount of Windows registry and IP networking experience we learned fighting his parents.
Moral of the story, locking your network might encourage your kids to learn to hack.
With my account, for anything important Apple sends a text message to my iPhone (one specific phone number).If that is the case, what's to prevent your son from changing this password and locking you out of your own Apple ID account? If you trust your son not to do that, why don't you trust him to be responsible with his internet browsing?
Why has nobody mentioned the obvious iOS restrictions?
Settings > General > Restrictions
You can limit what apps are available, ratings of media, and limit internet use to specific designated websites.
How old is your son??
Ah, well, saw the poster was M. Gustave and skipped the rest.Ah, well, if you want people to actually read your response, maybe don't start it with this:
"Before I start I don't have a complete answer for you but maybe something will point you in the right direction."
So I skipped the rest. Apologies.
With my account, for anything important Apple sends a text message to my iPhone (one specific phone number).
Use OpenDNS and you can block entire categories of sites you don't wish your children to visit or just particular sites. Depending on how locked down you want to go, you can even blacklist everything and permit only certain sites. The best way to utilize OpenDNS is to use their DNS settings in your router. This way every device on your network is issued their DNS servers when those devices get their IP via DHCP.
Parents should utilize OpenDNS and services like it if they're remotely concerned about their children's safety online.
I use OpenDNS and have malware and other adware sites blocked. Their DNS is also much more responsive than my own ISP's.
Get an Apple TV and set it up to mirror to another screen in your house. That we you can see everything in real time.looking for some program that is REAL TIME that monitors my son's internet activity.
We all use the same Apple Login and Password, so I can actually look on my Iphone and update the history every few minutes. however, I think he is deleting sites shortly after he visits them. When he deletes them quickly, they don't show up on my phone because there is a delay.
Don't want to alter his physical Ipad, would rather use something that either monitors the cloud and records activity every 5 minutes or so.
Does anyone know if anything like this exists???
Thanks so much!!!
Just blocking sites doesnt do much. If you havent blocked other dns requests and filtering ports only for opendns in your router you can easily bypass routers dns settings from your computer.