debating on pressing charges or not
what do you think?
I'm going to be the descenting opinion here, I know it. Without knowing a lot of details behind the story, I would not press charges. The only reason you want to press charges at this point is to exact revenge. You would have gotten your phone back. If you do not get it back, then I would say without a doubt to press charges.
If you press charges after you've got the phone back, you will probably incite a revenge response from the thief as well. Remember, he stole your phone to begin with, so you'll have to be the bigger man. It's a slippery slope to go on if you constantly try and get even. I've been there, trust me...it doesn't end nice. But like I said, I don't know the kind of characters you're dealing with. I only know the kind of people that did that crap where I grew up, and pressing charges didn't do anything to deter them. Usually it ended up with a fight, beating, stabbing, etc.
But it's not my iPhone that got stolen. I'm just speaking from experience. I don't know the kind of people you're dealing with, etc.
The only thing I would ask is what kind of justice do you hope to accomplish after you've gotten your phone back, by pressing charges? Revenge isn't justice, even if it's carried under the letter of the law.