The seller agreed to my $50 refund request.
On an unrelated note, I decided to tackle the repaste also. It's actually not too bad, although I can see why Apple might not necessarily want someone tackling it on their own.
Basically, the processor card and heatsink assembly are held on by six screws, as outlined in the service guide. Four go through the heatsink and processor, and two only through the processor.
Once these are out, the CPU and heatsink lift off as a unit.
There are 6 Phillips head screws that go into split copper "feet" in the heatsink. When the heatsink was originally fitted, the screws caused the posts to expand and lock the card into place. There are also four hex head screws around the processor core-these have cupped washers and springs to control the tension actually being applied to the heatsink.
Once all of these are removed, the card and heatsink can be separated, cleaned, and repasted.
The slightly tricky part is reassembly, where the CPU has to be "snapped" over the flared copper posts.
All told, it's not a terrible job.