Nice to see some one on this forum who doesn't have to ask if this is the right thing or isn't advocating that it's their mistake so he gets to keep it (Specially when apple is nice enough to give you something extra for your trouble. Many companies wouldn't bother. Just tell you sorry for the inconvenience and tell you they can't control FedEx's issues).
Anyways, hope you get your iPad Friday. If not, well, at least you don't have to wait til May

(though for me it's cause my mom is being nice and handing me down her iPad 2 but she doesn't want to mail it to me so I have to wait til i visit her. I can't really complain since it's a free iPad

but I do have to say that now that I know I am getting one I want one to play with so waiting 2 months seems a long time).