Can't say that I've read the reviews from cover to cover yet, but they all seem to be looking at the M3 Max and regular M3. MR are just re-hashing the unverified "6%" claim from Max Tech - and even if that turns out to be accurate, real people don't buy MacBooks to run Geekbench - real-world performance on graphics, video and 3D will be important and the battery life under load could be a critical difference between the Pro and Max, since the big change is re-balancing the mix of economy and performance cores. Then there's other things like the extra TB4 port and support for 2 external displays that also distinguish the M3 Pro from the plain M3. Wrt. the M1 Pro/M2 Pro they've even bumped the base RAM up from 16 to 18GB without sticking $200 on the price (who are you and what have you done with the real Tim Cook?)M3 Pro is a disappointment. The "middle option" doesn't seem as appealing anymore. If they can get a 20% CPU performance improvement out of M3 and 50% out of the Max, then only 6% for the Pro is inexcusable.
Anyway, apart from a relative handful of cash-splurging customers, the #1 target market for the M3 Macs is not people who bought an M2 in the last 10 months - its mainly going to be people upgrading from Intel Macs or who bought regular M1 Macs before the Pro chips appeared.