Shunning standardization? The rest of the industry constantly does that when they invent new plugs. In the time that Apple has maintained the single Lightning plug style the electronics industry standardized around several usb plug styles like mini-usb, micro-usb, usb3-micro, and usb-c. Lightning was also reversible when none of the other usb plug styles were until C. Moving to USBC now is good, but it’s simply inaccurate to say that Lightning was bad or unnecessary.
Meanwhile my dogs are regularly pulling the power cord out of both my old MBP and newer USB-C work laptop. Our Weims are pretty good at avoiding the cord, but the Bull Terrier who stays with us a lot has an uncanny ability to yank cords. USB-C ports are not durable enough for this kind of abuse while my MagSafe port maintains the same secure connection as it did seven years ago. Besides, connecting MagSafe is a cinch because it snaps into place while USBC requires looking at the side of the computer or scraping the plug against the side of the computer until you find the port.
TLDR People who dont value MagSafe have never had dogs.