im in the same boat....preordered on ATT first, but shipping confirmation said it would deliver sometime in November...cancelled that order and ordered from apple store, but by then I was already in the next group....hopefully things will ship sooner.
I am a bit of a pessimist though, with all that i am reading about supply constraints and heavy demand for the 6+, im not looking for it to ship until the end of the suggested time...I actually wouldn't be surprised it if was later than that
I find it kind of odd that the expected ship times on apple.com are still 3-4 weeks...i figured they would have already extended shipments even farther out...like i said though, im a total pessimist, hopefully things will happen sooner than later.