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Sleep apnea is extremely bad for your health. If at any time her snoring stops, then after some delay is followed up by gasping or gulping for air, then she needs to do a sleep study ASAP.
Nope, just snoring
 
Careful with the sleep apnea studies. There’s a huge scam around getting people to buy those cpap machines. You have to figure out the cause and solve the problem. Usually it is being overweight. Avoid sleeping on the back. Put a tennis ball pinned in a sock on the back should work. Lose weight. Try intermittent fasting. Shift to a plant based diet. Exercise like walking. If it’s a nose issue maybe surgery might help. Separate rooms is a good start. If you are on vacation then don’t worry about it. Oh also white noise in the room can really help. A good air filter will both clean the air and provide white noise. Maybe she has asthma or an allergy to dust, bedding, indoor air pollution from cleaning products, crappy bedding, etc. Main thing is don’t make her feel bad because then you both won’t be sleeping!

CPAP's are not a scam. Sleep Apnea is a serious medical condition that puts stress on your heart and brain. Sometimes losing weight helps, but thin people can develop sleep apnea, especially as you age. Essentially, your airway begins to constrict as you are asleep. Continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) has improved the lives and health of millions of people.
 
I used to use silicone ear plugs, which work pretty well. https://www.amazon.com/Macks-Pillow...1522449666&sr=1-4&keywords=silicone+ear+plugs

Before I met my wife, I was in a relationship with a loud snorer. So bad that I could hear her even with the door closed if I went into another room. Even her "snore guard" couldn't stop it. Those ear plugs were the best compromise for me between comfort and noise reduction.

As for the sleep study and CPAP machine...I dunno, seems a bit overkill just for snoring. If she isn't feeling rested or has other symptoms, that's a different story.
 
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My dog does some terrific snoring and I totally love it when she does it. <3
 
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My dog does some terrific snoring and I totally love it when she does it. <3

The trouble is that what is adorable in one's delightful dog or canine companion is often - perhaps inexplicably - a lot less so in a human companion, even a human who fills the role of adored Significant Other.
 
As for the sleep study and CPAP machine...I dunno, seems a bit overkill just for snoring. If she isn't feeling rested or has other symptoms, that's a different story.
Right —

When it’s beyond just making noise and turns into loud snorting, then *silence*, no more noise for fifteen or twenty seconds, then the person’s body jerks, then they go SNOORRRTGGTG, and then maybe they turn sideways because they’re awake again...

That silence is when their airway is blocked, and the involuntary full-body jerking motion is how the body opens the airway again.

Yeah, that’s sleep apnea. Like I said about my dad, they discovered he was having these “waking events” about 50 to 60 times per hour. He was never getting a good night’s sleep.
 
Another vote for sleep study. Just because you don’t notice any problems doesn’t mean she doesn’t have one. Hopefully your insurance will cover. This was pretty much me before I got a cpap:

 
@maflynn, well friend, you've been given a lot of suggestions and it seems most don't apply to your situation. So, I guess I have to break the difficult news to you. It's time to trade her in for a new model. Get one that doesn't come with a snoring feature. ;):p:D
 
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I too agree with the sleep study idea.

My dog does some terrific snoring and I totally love it when she does it. <3
The only thing cuter is when dogs dream. My old dog used to dream all the time... with her ears twitching, paws articulating, and what can only be described as trying to bark with her mouth shut. She also made this loud “deflating” sound when she laid down after tiring herself out.

Another vote for sleep study. Just because you don’t notice any problems doesn’t mean she doesn’t have one. Hopefully your insurance will cover. This was pretty much me before I got a cpap:

Haha, I need to send that around to my mother, that’s basically my dad every so often... When I was young my parents had a 1st floor master bedroom, my bedroom was directly above... though his screams could be heard from just about anywhere in the house... followed by my mom trying to calm him down. I call that his “Flashbacks to ‘Nam”... (even though he never served in Vietnam, or anywhere else for that matter)
- not to sound insensitive.

I’ve tried to ask what these dreams are about, but he won’t talk about it, but always laughs it off in the rare chance he remembers it even happening.
 
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Ok, so I've been married for something like 13 years, and my wife snores. She's tried a number of remedies for her to stop, but I think I must try options for my own well being.

So that got me thinking, what do other people do, with a snoring spouse/partner?

For me, I'm going to try ordering some noise reduction ear plugs. Some are marketed specifically for snoring, though I think that's more marketing then actual product differences. At this point, it can't hurt to try.

Not that you might want to try it but separate bedrooms for each for sleeping.
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@maflynn, well friend, you've been given a lot of suggestions and it seems most don't apply to your situation. So, I guess I have to break the difficult news to you. It's time to trade her in for a new model. Get one that doesn't come with a snoring feature. ;):p:D

I'm sure there is a percentage that get a divorce where snoring is one of the causes.
 
I'm the only snorer, but I snore infrequently. As in a couple days here and there. I do have spasms when I am severely tired or when I exercise but forget to take some mineral tablets or have a banana.
 
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My wife has sleep apnea, she uses a cpap. I snore when I lay on my back and sometime on my side, my wife’s I DoD not stop breathing and have to catch my breath. I have not yet a sleep study, but are there any kmown remedies that actually work, short of a cpap machine?

I looked at this online, “Sleep Connection Wrist Device”, then I went to Amazon and looked at reviews shreding this thing. Instead of half off at $60 it was for sale at $17 at Amazon. Sounds like it is unreliable and in trouble.



And this. None of these worked:
 
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