Not every band/musician plays live.. or for that matter, wants to. I quit music a while ago (professionally) because there is no way to make a living anymore as an artist. Only the high-end artists make it (a handful)
Yeah, it's only massive high-end artists like Jonathan Coulton, Paul and Storm and The Long Winters that are making it now. Oh, wait...
Personally, I pay for my music (yep, all of it). However, the music industry has to recognise that the old business model (well, actually the recent business model - it's only for a relatively short time compared to the history of music that artists have made most of their money from selling recordings via massive companies that keep most of the profits) is dead (or at least dying). The internet and digital are killing it, hopefully along with a lot of the talentless manufactured rubbish posing as bands that we've had to put up with recently from the big labels. The digital genie isn't going back in the bottle anytime soon (if ever) so it's adapt or die time, guys.