Lots of great one liners folks. But someone died. I'm sure the persons family appreciates all the uncalled for speculation and humor here.
That happens when you've experienced the deaths of loved ones and had to grieve with those they left behind.
It's a lot easier to joke about it when it hasn't touched you personally.
Unlikely the person's family is reading this.
Everyone has a breaking point including you.Hmmm...I'll wait on an independent study before believing that. And let's not even begin to debate that depression is a mental DISORDER and NOT an illness. Again, the person has a choice and often times chooses a solution that benefits only themselves and does not take into account anyone around them. Therefore, it is extremely selfish.
I'm a former Apple Employee. I used to work in IL1. There were times when my job made me contemplate suicide. It was an awful time. I'm hoping this isn't a suicide. Thoughts and prayers to the family of this individual.
maybe I'm in the minority here but, I have very little sadness for those that decide to kill themselves. Unless there was some mental illness, suicide is one of the most selfish things you can do.
Have you never worked a job that consumed your life? Where your success or failure was just about all there was to life anymore? Ever moved away to work somewhere and all of your new friends are at work then lost that job and your friends with it? It's not just Apple, all of the tech companies force this type of lifestyle. It's tough. Add to it that some people are naturally depressed and suicidal...especially smart people.
No, you're not in the minority. Most people share that ironically selfish misconception, and think it's somehow ethical to argue that everyone on earth, whether they value their life as much as you do or not, should be obliged to go on living lives of chaos and misery for as long as physiologically possible, to maximize suffering, all so that you won't have to have your rosy worldview disturbed by the idea that everything is not as okay for everyone else as it is for you, and that for many, death is preferable in every way to another day in this world.
I have to admit I find it quite amusing when people say "suicide is selfish". So wanting a miserable person to stick around so you won't be sad isn't?
Once you start labeling things selfish, you're going to find that an awful lot of stuff could be. Just about almost anything we do, really.
Folks, leave your narcissism at the door.
Not a single one of you know the circumstances surrounding this tragic turn of events.
Grow up and show an ounce of decency. The lot of you would be showing up to therapy had this happened to your coworker while you were down the hall.
So good you could set that straight for us. And for her (I have a guess as to why she's no longer seeing you). Where do you practice medicine and what medical licenses do you hold? I'd like to make a point of avoiding your practice.Couldn't agree more. My last girlfriend was a nueroscientist who researched antisocial behavior like suicide and psychopathy. She tried telling me antisocial behavior like suicide isn't about selfishness but profound depression and specific brain patterns. I told her she was wrong. It IS selfish. End of story.