I'm sorry but I always expect to be treated as a lady regardless of whether I'm in a clown suit for a fancy dress party, an evening dress, an office suit, jogging sweats, jeans or a mini-skirt. I act like a lady so I expect to be treated as one.
But this lead to the question ... can dress be considered behavior, and when is a certain behavior appropriate?
Would a lady wear a mini-skirt to a " black tie affair ' ?
Would a lady wear jogging sweats to a " dinner party "?
Would you wear an evening dress to the " athletic club " to work out in?
A lady might wear a micro-bikini on the beach, but would she wear it to a at her wedding?
Like was said earlier ... " sometimes it is fun to wear risque clothing ", and I agree ... but there is a time and place for it.
Bottom line I guess would be ...
" It's not what you wear, but where you wear it that makes it inappropriate. "