Me and my significant other have made plans to soon move in together, and things have recently taken a turn for the worst. I don't know if we are both feeling the pressure now, but I know that one day I want him to go from my boyfriend to my husband. To be honest he doesn't have the best "track record" and now it seems as we are trying to take a step forward we are taking two steps back. What it comes down to is: I'm afraid that if I commit to my significant other I'm going to get screwed over in the end. There's always the possibility that my partner isn't ready to commit. I want to be the only girl he wants! How do I know for sure?