No, you don't understand it at all, BTW ....
What you have is a false sense of superiority over people who choose Mac, because of a lack of understanding about what really makes the Apple products popular.
Apple customers DO have pride in their purchases. That's because unlike the boring, cookie-cutter Dell, HP and other such Windows PCs, they know they're not just buying another "appliance". Are there SOME people who simply enjoy knowing they paid more than others can afford? I'm sure... but that's a minority, and they're out there doing that with any product on the market, not just computers.
I've been in I.T. for close to 2 decades now, and I spent a LOT of it building, repairing and selling generic PC clones. To this day, I'm the network manager of a company that's using all Windows PCs. I know what's out there for the money, and what a PC "is" and "isn't" compared to a Mac.
Guess what? I have mostly Macs at home, and one lone HP TouchSmart PC running Windows Vista. Which one gives me 90% of my software and peripheral incompatibility issues? The HP.
I started buying Macs back around 1999-2000 when I first saw OS X and realized I liked working with it FAR better than working with Windows. At that time, Apple's hardware was more unique than it is today (no Intel processors yet, etc.). So then, it was abundantly clear you had to buy the Mac to get OS X -- and I was fine with that. Nowdays, granted, you can just build a "Hackintosh" if you want and have OS X without buying Apple's hardware at all. But for starters, that's not LEGAL. Even if you don't care though - I've seen time and time again where Apple adds value to the purchase, justifying the higher price. They pay attention to the details that others don't. My Macbook Pro was constructed FAR better than the cheaper alternatives, for example. The mag-safe adapter alone has probably saved it at least one fall to the floor that would have trashed a competing product.
Even if it is in every part except the Mac Pro, Apple still can't match Intel's manufacturing scale. I don't see it as a problem, though. Apple has never worried about charging more for products than others. They'll just raise the prices to keep their margins the same and their apologists will mob message boards defending Apples higher prices and the fact that zombies are gladly willing to pay more for the same stuff.
I understand how this works. I sell it all day long. Apple customers take a peverse pride in the fact that they pay a lot more for their fruity gadgets. It makes them feel better about themselves and superior to those who don't have their good taste.