Where do I start?
Firstly, I don't won only Apple devices, but if I do that is my personal choice, they suit me best, they work better then any other out there for me so there you have it.I have no time or money to waste with garbage that does not work well. What other people use is not my concern.
You seem to not have used streaming, otherwise you would know that you can create countless of playlists with the songs/music you like and make it available off line. Listen to it when you are in the Amazon forest (or wherever you may find yourself away from civilisation without internet) Same on Netflix. Watch any movie off line.
And just to make one thing clear, I am not forced to live without anything. I am well decided on stuff that I buy and I chose to use what I chose because it works great for my needs and has everything I need. And I have explained how things work on the argument that you brought earlier (about how you connect an Android phone device via a wire to access the files) That is so last century btw. Can't remember last time I needed to connect a phone to a computer to access anything, must have been years ago. Do all file transfer like a breeze, even between iOS and Android without having to use any wire. Doing it via a wire is very old. Things have changed a bit on the last 10 years.
Sure, as long as you live inside the apple bubble. People don't use usb-A anymore, they don't exchange files with usb sticks, they rarely (if ever) use cable ethernet, headphone jack is so yesterday, being able to re-arange your home screen is for children, who needs widgets, why would you ever want to use the only device you always carry with you as a usb disk etc. etc. Conclusion: life is good in the iPrison. Regardless, if it works for you, why not ?
As far as how much things have changed in the last 10 years, please tell that to apple as well. I've heard they recently discovered wireless charging and grouped notifications. Yay ! (of course it goes without saying that you didn't need these up until now, as well)
However, the discussion is about devices and the variety of options/usability they offer. So, guess who is irrelevant with all those "I don't need..., I don't use..., I'm fine with...".