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Spray for 'six times longer' sex

leekohler said:
Seriously- is a penis the only thing that gets women off? Come on- there are so many other ways to be sexual. You straight people seriously confound me sometimes. ;)
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Of course it's not the only way but it's probably the best way. I would really feel like I was missing out given only a few minutes. What if it is only a few minutes EACH time regardless of how many 'rounds'? I don't know if it works that way or not with this particular problem but if so then that is a real problem. It doesn't mean there is some bigger issue if two people are not satisfied with only a few minutes either. I agree that communicating is good though. (as per other posts)
This isn't about being gay, straight uncreative or not. A few minutes is not enough, at least not for most women I know, including me, and I'm an easy satisfier. So maybe a large part of the problem is expectations of women. However I find that to be quite fair. If a woman RSVPs to a party, she should expect to come too.
 
Funny they mention anti-depressants, I used to be on anti-anxiety medication which had similar 'side effects'. Was a hell of a lot more than 6x better though!

:eek:
 
iBlue said:
Of course it's not the only way but it's probably the best way. I would really feel like I was missing out given only a few minutes. What if it is only a few minutes EACH time regardless of how many 'rounds'? I don't know if it works that way or not with this particular problem but if so then that is a real problem. It doesn't mean there is some bigger issue if two people are not satisfied with only a few minutes either. I agree that communicating is good though. (as per other posts)
This isn't about being gay, straight uncreative or not. A few minutes is not enough, at least not for most women I know, including me, and I'm an easy satisfier. So maybe a large part of the problem is expectations of women. However I find that to be quite fair. If a woman RSVPs to a party, she should expect to come too.
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Didn't mean to be insulting, blue. I'm just amazed that people can't find better ways to cope with this stuff other than an anesthetic. There are ways, people just have to be open and communicative. And trust me, you won't hear too many gay guys talking about this "problem". We don't view it as a problem. Really- we don't think about it at all.

And just so you know- guys who go off quickly the first time, usually last MUCH longer the second or third time. That's been my experience anyway. ;)
 
CorvusCamenarum said:
Of course it's not just about the wang - having money helps too.
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Hmmm. The article wonders:
Why women have better sex with rich men
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I'd venture to say its probably because of all the pearl necklaces they get…

leekohler said:
And trust me, you won't hear too many gay guys talking about this "problem". We don't view it as a problem. Really- we don't think about it at all.
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Very true.
As I tried to say — and don't get me wrong on this — I think most straight guys have been brought up with this huge expectation "for him to satisfy his woman" and procreate.
When he has a premature condition (trying to be delicate here…) it is turned into a problem by the guy.

Gay men know this stuff happens. So it never becomes a big deal.
 
arkitect said:
Very true.
As I tried to say — and don't get me wrong on this — I think most straight guys have been brought up with this huge expectation "for him to satisfy his woman" and procreate.
When he has a premature condition (trying to be delicate here…) it is turned into a problem by the guy.

Gay men know this stuff happens. So it never becomes a big deal.
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Exactly- you just giggle and say something like, "Oh- somebody was really turned on just now! I'm flattered!", and you just keep going until things "come up" again. That's usually how it goes. I've never really given it that much thought.
 
leekohler said:
Didn't mean to be insulting, blue. I'm just amazed that people can't find better ways to cope with this stuff other than an anesthetic. There are ways, people just have to be open and communicative. And trust me, you won't hear too many gay guys talking about this "problem". We don't view it as a problem. Really- we don't think about it at all.

And just so you know- guys who go off quickly the first time, usually last MUCH longer the second or third time. That's been my experience anyway. ;)
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Oh I wasn't insulted or anything. I actually agree that there must be better ways to deal than local anesthetics. I don't know though. My experience with guys (and 'rounds') has been as you described.

I laughed about the pearl necklaces. :D
 
iBlue said:
A few minutes is not enough, at least not for most women I know
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Can depend on the mood. Usually, I'd agree but sometimes hard and fast can be kinda fun ;)

There can also be the opposite problem where it goes on too long - why else are there so many articles on how to fake it. :p And most couples know that sometimes things aren't going to be perfect. But I got the feeling that these poor guys were lucky to hit 30 seconds the majority of the time and that's got to be tough if you're really in the mood to take it slow.

And yes, there are lots of other things to do as appetisers, amuse bouches, pudding and cheese but the main entree should be able to be savoured as the deliciousness it is.
 
LOL - When i read the title for this, somehow I was thinking Length, not Time. You know, like the commercials on TV where the guy takes the little pill and wifey is smiling in the background.

Geez, if it gets to be six times longer, I will need to disguise it as a necktie and wrap it around my neck! :p
 
TheSVD said:
dude... 4 minutes?
your f*cking joking right?
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So that means you go, what, 2 minutes?
:p

In all seriousness, I think Tiffany's is the best place to get a pearl necklace; nothing beats the look of surprise when she opens that blue box.

The thread also reminds me of.
 
Lilly Allen's new single [It's Not Fair], too perfect for this :D
Oh he treats me with respect
He says he loves me all the time
He calls me 15 times a day
He likes to make sure that I'm fine
You know I've never met a man
who's made me feel quite so secure
He's not like all them other boys
They're all so dumb and immature

There's just one thing
that's getting in the way
When we go up to bed
you're just no good
Its such a shame
I look into your eyes
I want to get to know you
And then you make this noise
and its apparent it's all over

It's not fair
And I think you're really mean
I think you're really mean
I think you're really mean
Oh you're supposed to care
But you never make me scream
You never make me scream

Oh it's not fair
And it's really not ok
It's really not ok
It's really not ok
Oh you're supposed to care
But all you do is take
Yeah all you do is take

Oh I lie here
in the wet patch
In the middle of the bed
I'm feeling pretty
damn hard done by
I spent ages giving head
Then I remember
all the nice things
that you ever said to me
Maybe I'm just overreacting
maybe you're the one for me

There's just one thing
that's getting in the way
When we go up to bed
you're just no good
It's such a shame
I look into your eyes
I want to get to know you
And then you make this noise
and it's apparent it's all over

It's not fair
And I think you're really mean
I think you're really mean
I think you're really mean
Oh you're supposed to care
But you never make me scream
You never make me scream

Oh it's not fair
And it's really not ok
It's really not ok
It's really not ok
Oh you're supposed to care
But all you do is take
Yeah all you do is take

There's just one thing
that's getting in the way
When we go up to bed
you're just no good
It's such a shame
I look into your eyes
I want to get to know you
And then you make this noise
and its apparent it's all over

It's not fair
And I think you're really mean
I think you're really mean
I think you're really mean
Oh you're supposed to care
But you never make me scream
You never make me scream

Oh it's not fair
And it's really not ok
It's really not ok
It's really not ok
Oh you're supposed to care
But all you do is take
Yeah all you do is take
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Cheeky madam. :eek:
 
leekohler said:
Seriously- is a penis the only thing that gets women off? Come on- there are so many other ways to be sexual. You straight people seriously confound me sometimes. ;)
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I agree with you here Lee, some people are so single minded it's unreal!

There have been a lot of times where I have had some amazing times and intercourse hasn't been involved! - Get creative!
 
iNash said:
I agree with you here Lee, some people are so single minded it's unreal!

There have been a lot of times where I have had some amazing times and intercourse hasn't been involved! - Get creative!
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Agreed- work with it! :) Figure out how to make it a plus, not a minus. Spraying your penis with drugs is just a bad idea for a problem that really isn't a problem in the first place.
 
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