I'm not trying to be judgmental and definitely don't seek to offend, but it was these type of comments to which I was referring.
I think iBlue made a great point with her comments.
My comments are more aimed at making sure we be sensitive to other's difficulties, especially those that have medical or physical conditions. I'm not gay and haven't counseled gay couples, so I can't comment on how this issue is handled in those relationships. But, for the heterosexual couples I have worked with it is a major issue if there is an inability to have lasting intercourse and therefore achieve the level of intimacy that comes from that specific type of contact. These couples definitely use creativity and other types of sexual activity to ensure that both parties are mutually satisfied. However, I firmly believe, as iBlue and especially kastenbrust have stated, that for heterosexual couples intercourse is an extremely important aspect of bonding and interaction. And, just doing it again, is not the answer because those with these types of medical condition will go early almost every time.
Again, not trying to pick on people or start an argument. I just wanted to share some of my experience working with couples like this so we could all appreciate what they face and be thankful for our own blessings.