The belief in the potential for it being related to frequencies is interesting
and could prove to become fixable with a firmware update to address how the phone handles attaching itself to any given cell site.
As each site is unique, and since we all know how Apple is claiming that the phone should be able - because of design and programming - decide which cell site offers the more reliable connection over a stronger one, this most definitely could be resolved in that manner.
That could be and most likely is the software issue, as we've all come to understand it.
But that's just the one side of the dual issue most of us are having: it doesn't address the bridging of the two antennas which is the hardware issue and the one I suffer from most dramatically - I can cause the phone to simply disconnect from the cellular network entirely with a fingertip, doesn't take a full on "Vulcan Death Grip" or anything close to it, just the tip of a finger and I'm so close to a cell site I could almost fry a CD with it.
Ok, that last bit was a stretch but I am within about 750 feet of the antenna array on the AT&T building here in downtown Vegas (this stuff is explained in my sig link) which should definitely qualify as a very strong if not excessively strong signal area and yet I can still lose it all with the touch of a finger.
I'm wondering if, when the phone is in a relatively stationary position - and by this I mean you're in the same location physically, like your house, your property, etc. and not the phone sitting dead center of your desktop, etc. - that it'll stick to the first cell site it attaches/associates with and won't budge, and when you grip it (not the bridging thing) the attenuation change isn't enough to trigger it to switch frequencies...
The more I think about it right now the more I'm leaning towards that possibility.
When the phone associates with a given cell site, as long as the phone remains relatively stationary (meaning the same general location and not actively mobile which would trigger the switchover to another physical cell site) it should stay associated and not need to do any "channel hopping," ever, as long as the signal remains at a given level.
Now, if in that situation we cause attenuation by gripping it, holding it, touching it, whatever because of the antenna band contact or close proximity (since you can put it inside a case and negate the skin-on-metal contact) the phone
should switch frequencies as required to maintain a given level of service, but NOT switch cell sites.
The software "bug" we could be experiencing is because it's NOT switching frequencies or even cell sites, it's sticking on that associated site on the assigned frequency and it just degrades as the attenuation remains in place - remove the attenuation and the signal (because it hasn't changed frequencies or cell sites) suddenly spikes right back to life.
There are countless videos out there now where that happens, the change in signal and data reception/transmission
is literally instant, as if a switch had been thrown.
Yeah, this is my theory now: For those of us experiencing this problem the issue is that currently the phone, when the signal is degraded by attenuation to any significant degree, is NOT changing frequencies to accommodate the attenuation, nor is it switching cell sites, as long as the phone believes that the signal it locked on to is reliable enough to not trigger some threshold programmed in that says "Ok, that signal is crap, let's hop for something better."
That could be it... that's what I'll stick with till something better comes along, that the phone simply isn't adjusting itself based on a given threshold of signal quality. The "lag" thing I've seen mentioned could end up being part of this as well since the hand-off from frequency to frequency as well as site to site only has a given period of time to go in and get accepted or... you get Jack Squat© as a result.
Now if they can just resolve the bridging/shorting issue with a firmware update that's getting somewhere...