Sounds like a personal problem to me? Maybe you should change your outlook and quit assuming random Tesla owners fit one particular mindset you've assigned to them?
As someone who was never really sure about Elon Musk in the past, but who loved Space-X and Tesla? I'm just as happy with their vehicles today as I was back in 2014.
I mean, early on, he created that Tesla Solar company and it turned out it was mostly an attempt to bail out a relative's failing solar panel business when he bought it out as a favor. Their pricing never really made sense to me. I got better panels at a better price buying from a regional solar installer. His "Boring Company" was questionable too. I mean, ok - they have a cool machine to dig big tunnels in the ground. But we've always been able to dig tunnels as needed for large projects, and all of the stuff about it enabling a "Hyper Loop" was just sci-fi fantasy imagination as much as anything else. (Note that Elon just suggested OTHERS could build them to work with his Boring Company tunnels to make a complete package. And nobody really did....)
Elon was really just the "money" behind various business startup ideas, with some having more merits than others. (I think Starlink has some definite promise!)
Beyond that, he's just a rich guy who has a lot of fun trolling people on social media and making real "big picture" promises about what he wants to do next -- most of which has unrealistic timelines for completion, even if it's really happening. I happen to like the guy in an "eccentric rich dude" way. But he could walk away from Tesla completely and the company should be fine. He didn't invent anything they do and they're well established....