Agreed.I used to work with a guy who once used to be an electrician working for a company that installed small substations for businesses. The company won a contract with a Saudi firm and this guy would be contracted for 6 months at a time to go out to Saudi Arabia with a small team of men to install the companies substations. He used to tell us that he could do virtually nothing in the country expect work eat and sleep because he was not allowed to do anything else. He could not drink or take drugs, he could not go out and have a good time dancing and singing with females because flirting and stuff like that with someone who is not your wife is not allowed. So all he did was work, eat and sleep and at the end of the 6 months come home with a huge huge wage. He used to say, he loved the money but hated being over there because it was ever so restrictive.
All these footballers going over there have no idea what they have let themselves in for.
That doctor deeply disliked Saudi Arabia, while his wife loathed the place.
Another doctor I know - he is a first cousin of mine, a radiologist - spent some time in Saudi Arabia, a few years, gaining much valuable experience, and earning enough money to subsequently purchase a very nice house.
Again, his wife - quite rightly - refused to travel there; their solution was to negotiate very generous leave arrangements, which meant that the guy travelled home every fortnight for a long week-end; basically, he commuted to Saudi on a fortnightly basis.
One might make the argument that "one will do anything for the money", - but, is it fair to expect your spouse (of either gender - women are second class, well, actually, tenth class, citizens, but anything on the LGBT spectrum is actually illegal) to have to endure such conditions?
The old argument 'if they loved you enough' cuts both ways.
As a woman, I will say there is no sum sufficiently large to compensate for the lack of rights and the limited and extraordinarily restricted life one would be expected to lead there.