Agree 100%.In a different forum someone reminded: the placebo effect does count. Even if it’s just a belief and they’re happy, let them be happy. The comments such as “you’re an idiot not to notice” are obnoxious, nonetheless.
I haven't had a chance to use it extensively on the 13 pro yet, but I suspect it'll be similar to my experience with the iPad pro; you notice the scrolling fluidity initially, but after a while you get used to it. When you switch to a standard 60Hz device, you notice the difference, but again after a few hours of using the 60Hz device the effect wears off.
The battery savings (when the screen ramps down) are nice, but alongside the other improvements the iPhone 13 brings, is it worth paying a grand (if not more) for the iPhone 13? For some people it is. For my use case (I'm currently using an XR), I suspect not.