Try holding down the "option" key while booting instead so that the boot choices appear.
Try using just a CD as a DVD is overkill for the amount of space needed to accomplish this task. Also don't do step 5 in your list above.
So the good news is that it showed up when I held option! It booted into some lines of code stuff. Of course the SSD isn't installed yet so no idea if it will work then, but so far so good. It gave an error 20 or something, assuming because it can't detect the SSD.
Thanks guys